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What is Hypnosis?
Hypnosis is a normal and familiar condition, a trance state, similar to the
states that we all experience several times daily. A trance is simply focusing
on one emotion or thought at the exclusion of all others. We undergo this state
while showering, getting ready for work, driving, watching television,
daydreaming, and conversing with our wives (oops, was that out loud?). Hypnosis
is this trance state, progressed to level of heightened suggestibility for the
purpose of achieving a predetermined goal.
What areas can Hypnotherapy be helpful in?
Did you pack a lunch? Hypnotherapy can be helpful with the
following:
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Insomnia
Anxiety
Goal Setting
Motivation
Guilt
Regression
Stuttering
Stress
Motivation
Bed Wetting |
Chronic Pain
Addictions
Shame
Sadness
Test Anxiety
Childbirth
Fears and Phobias
Allergies
Emotional Pain
Relaxation |
Weight Management
Smoking Cessation
High Blood Pressure
Tension Headaches
Medical Procedures
Sports Performance
Dental Procedures
Memory Improvement
Self-confidence
Sexual Dysfunction |
How do I know if I can be hypnotized?
There are only 3 things that can prevent someone from being hypnotized:
1. They don’t want to be hypnotized.
2. They have an unstable thought process or mental disorder.
3. They have a very low IQ
Can I determine if I will be a good
candidate for hypnosis?
There are several personal factors that have a correlation with
responsiveness to hypnosis. Here are a few:
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Have you ever walked or talked in your sleep?
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Have you ever awakened from a sleep state and felt like you could not
move or speak?
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Are you basically a trusting person?
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Do you have a vivid imagination?
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Do you frequently day dream?
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When you find you are day dreaming do you quickly stop or let yourself
enjoy it?
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Are you able to concentrate on a specific thought or idea?
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Are you open to new ideas?
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Do you follow directions or instructions well?
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Do you lose yourself in movies, television shows, or books?
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Are you a spiritual or religious person?
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Have you ever meditated?
What does hypnosis feel like?
The actual induction techniques often will leave you feeling very
relaxed although they are not required to do so. For me personally, it
feels like that state of disassociation right before you stop thinking
about falling asleep and actually drift off. You hear and feel
everything but you really just want to get to that feeling that you know
is just out of reach.
Will I know that I was hypnotized?
The answer to this question depends largely on your expectations. I
always ask my clients this question when they come out of a trance. “Do
you believe you were hypnotized?” For the first time clients, I almost
always get a confused look, their eyes searching their memories for the
answer. “I don’t know. I’m not sure because I heard everything.” I get
this in spite of my reassuring them during our pre-talk that they most
certainly would hear everything. The expectation that they would go deaf
and develop amnesia is, at times, so strong that my pre-conditioning of
the process is not accepted.
Remember hypnosis is a completely natural state that your mind is
familiar and comfortable with. Do not expect an acute change in
awareness or consciousness. However this discussion always continues
with the new clients and 9 times out of 10 they will have convinced
themselves before they leave my office that they were, indeed,
hypnotized. That 1 individual we left out is the skeptic. They weren’t
entirely sure if they believed in hypnosis but wanted to give it their
best effort. They will be scratching their head all the way home. When
they discuss the process with someone close to them they will finally
gain acceptance.
Is it possible that I won't come out of hypnosis?
Absolutely not. Yet another myth perpetuated by old movies. If a client
were to go into such a deep trance that they were to actually fall
asleep, they would simply go into a state of natural sleep and awaken as
they normally would. This is an extremely rare occurrence.
Is hypnosis "mind control"?
Not at all. Unless you are talking about “self-mind control” in which
case I would like to change my answer to most definitely. The client is,
at all times, in complete control of their mind. I cannot, through any
use of the trance state, cause someone to betray their morals or ethics,
place themselves in harms way, or do or say anything against their will.
Recall that in a hypnotic state we are dealing with the subconscious
mind that exists to protect your mind and body from harm.
Is hypnosis dangerous?
Definitely not. Hypnosis has been approved by the American Medical
Association and Council of Mental Health for over 40 years. There have
been no cases of harmful side effects or serious injuries during this
time. Hypnosis does not weaken the will, damage the nervous system, or
in any way adversely affect the physical or mental well being of an
individual.
How would you recommend I find the hypnotherapist
that is right for me?
This
question probably should have been at the top of this page as finding
the right person to assist you is one of the most important aspects of
your success. First let me briefly explain why this is so important. You
MUST trust your hypnotherapist. This is imperative. You will be hard pressed
to go into trance with someone in whom you have not placed a certain degree
of blind-faith.
To
this end I have two recommendations. Consult with a trusted friend who
has been to this hypnotist or, when this isn’t possible, qualify your
prospective hypnotherapist on the phone. Talk with him or her, ask questions,
see if this person can quickly establish rapport with you. Liking the
sound of their voice can help a lot as well.
Next
I believe it is crucial to determine how motivated this individual is
in helping you reach your goals. You want to make sure you will be seeing
a hypnotist who will be attending to your needs in every session. There
are some individuals that will hook you up to a tape recorder for one
of your "live" sessions. Ask if they use this technique and if they do
look somewhere else. Tapes are NEVER as effective as a session with a
qualified and experienced hypnotist.
I
encourage you to also carefully check out your prospective hypnotist's
credentials and education. Because certification can be obtained from
some training institutions in as little as three days, I believe it is
imperative for you to ask questions about your prospective hypnotist's
education and training. Know that very few institutes of traditional learning,
major universities, have hypnosis training programs. The good news is
that many of the independent schools of hypnotherapy provide the best
training in the world. And when discussing this topic make sure you ask
about continuing education. Any competent hypnotist should never stop
their professional development.
Finally,
if a hypnotist isn't willing to discuss his or her fees with you on the
phone, hang up immediately. If their fees were reasonable don't you think
they would share them with you?
How long is a typical session?
Your
first session will typically run between 90 minutes and two hours. Subsequent
sessions usually last 45 to 90 minutes. But as was mentioned previously,
we are solution oriented. It could take 15 minutes or 2 hours. We will
pursue your desires as long as it takes.
Hypnosis is interactive.
Hypnotherapists look for responses and changes in
breathing, skin color, eye movement, and posture throughout the process
of hypnosis. We communicate with our clients while in trance, receiving
responses orally, through gestures, and subtle movements. We ask questions,
make sure directions are understood and clarify where they are not.
Yes,
it is possible for hypnosis tapes to work. No, your results will not be
the same. If you are serious about achieving results with tapes at least
do yourself the favor of getting tapes that have been customized for you.
Really? Who should not be hypnotized?
People
who have thought disorders like psychosis or schizophrenia should not
be hypnotized. People receiving treatment from a medical doctor for an
ongoing medical condition should not be hypnotized without this doctor’s
consent.
So, does self-hypnosis work?
Absolutely.
In fact hypnosis is technically self-hypnosis. The hypnotist is merely
acting as a educator. I am simply teaching you how to hypnotize yourself.
A more appropriate description for a hypnotist would be "educator". The
hypnotist has no power over the client and he or she is never in “control”
of the client’s subconscious. But if you are serious about enacting change
in your life, I highly recommend seeking the assistance of a trained professional,
if only for your first session.
Do you do any group programs?
Yes,
I do group programs. The success rate drops off dramatically if your group
is larger than 50 people
Do you offer free consultations?
We
absolutely do. However I would like to clarify that this is unlike some
of the "free consultations" you may have heard about in the Dallas area.
We will discuss with you program options, recommend appropriate program
durations, and answer any questions you have regarding hypnosis.
How does a typical hypnosis session proceed?
We
begin with an informal interview. I learn more about you, you learn more
about me, making sure we touch a few bases such as medical conditions,
sensitivities, and fears (yours, not mine). We will then talk about the
hypnotic process, what you should expect, and the specific method I intend
to use with you, detailing the suggestions I think might help achieve
your goal while in trance.
We
will also talk about any post-hypnotic suggestions I think might be useful
in help achieve your goal. I will encourage you to interject here with
both imagery and specific suggestions you would like to use. Usually the
client will then have a few questions I haven’t addressed specifically
or completely.
Once
we are both comfortable we will then proceed with the hypnotic process
itself. Having completed your hypnotherapy you will then come out of trance
and we will discuss your feelings and reactions to the process.
How can I learn more about hypnosis or hypnotherapy?
I am designing
a NLP and Hypnosis online program as well as traditional classes in 2004
Are the results of hypnosis permanent?
If you are a person committed to enacting change in your life and I do
my job, your suggestions will be preserved indefinitely. I 100% guarantee
it.
What if I am currently taking medication?
As
a rule, I will not see anyone who is taking medications for the change
they wish to implement in their lives. The reason for this is individuals
often have difficulty differentiating what has made the change in their
life, the meds or the hypnosis. This generally promotes doubt in the remedy
that the client is less familiar with and has less faith in. So the hypnotherapy
will ultimately be rendered ineffective. Worse yet, the suggestions may,
despite the disbelief, have been accepted by the subconscious however
the individual continues to take the medication for the rest of their
lives thinking they have brought about the change.
What if I am taking medication for an unrelated
condition or I am currently under a physician's care?
First
you need to speak with your doctor about whether he or she believes that
hypnosis will assist or conflict with a current medical condition. Then
please bring a letter from them indicating to me that he or she feels
that hypnotherapy will compliment their medical treatment. Most well informed
medical practitioners have become aware of the healing powers of the mind
and will encourage the use of hypnosis in achieving a state of well being.
How does stage hypnosis work?
Very
much the same way clinical hypnosis works. You have willing subjects that
can achieve some level of trance state and they are able to perform some
strange and hilarious things because of their expectations, preconceptions,
and willingness to step into the spotlight.
The
difference between the stage and clinical settings is that the latter
serves the desires of the client where the former serves the wishes of
the hypnotist to provide an entertaining show. Most performers do little
to educate the audience on the process thus creating an effect of wonder
and mystery.
Do you do stage hypnosis?
Sure.
I prefer, however, to do shows for charity organizations, schools and
church groups so I can provide more education and enlightenment than your
average hypnotist whose sole purpose is to entertain. So if your organization
or school can permit me a few extra minutes to ensure the process is safe
and instructional, give me a call.
What is NLP?
NLP
is an acronym for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Simply, it is opening
the mind to creative learning using carefully structured speech and imagery
that is based on several models and presuppositions.
What is Brief Imagination Therapy?
Brief
Imagination Therapy takes NLP and structures it as a therapeutic technique.
These techniques permit a person to make the gentle, rapid, and comfortable
adjustments necessary for their mental and physical well being. The main
difference between Brief Imagination Therapy and hypnotherapy is the areas
where the former has been seen to be more effective. These areas include:
Removing undesired feelings of anger, guilt, shame, and shyness, overcoming
mental blocks, and dealing with grief and loss.
Why do you have a two-session smoking cessation
program versus a one, three or five session program?
We have done
extensive research in tracking not only our client’s success, but the
success of clients in similar smoking caesarians programs through the
cooperation of hypnosis centers around the country. What we discovered
is that approximately 83% of clients in a single session program remained
smoke-free for a minimum of one year, compared with a two-session program
where our client’s success rate increased to 89%. That may not seem significant,
but successes after the first year increased dramatically with
an additional session, from 72% for one session to 93% for two sessions.
Adding a third session did not significantly change the success rate and
programs consisting of four or more sessions actually decreased
our clients success, largely due to many of these individuals not completing
the program.
Let me clarify
the reason that the two-session programs are more successful. It is not
because of a perceived need for reinforcement of hypnotic suggestions.
That simply isn’t the case. Once a thought, idea, or concept is accepted
by the subconscious mind it is permanent. In fact only on very rare occasions
do we “reinforce” suggestions from the first session. The second session
is typically used to address issues that arise from the smoking cessation
itself. These issues may include but are not limited to irritability,
feelings of loss, boredom, oral fixations, imagined withdrawal symptoms,
etc. Because there is no way to determine ahead of time how smoking cessation
will affect you, we use this session to ensure your transition to becoming
a non-smoker is pleasant, enjoyable, and, most importantly, permanent.
Will I begin to snack more if I quite smoking?
What you are asking me is if you will replace a habit with another habit.
Remembering
we are 100% solution oriented, I would answer your inquiry with another,
seeking a resolution to your question rather than merely an answer. Is
smoking harming your body more than putting on 20 pounds would (1 in 5
people die from causes that may be directly linked to smoking, 1 in 7
from complication from being obese)? Will you remain a non-smoker if you
gain 5 pounds? If you answered no to either of these questions you are
not ready to give up smoking. You are setting yourself up for failure
by imparting a secondary gain on your smoking. “If I continue to smoke,
I will not gain weight.” But is that really true?
How
much did you weigh when you began smoking? How much do you weigh now?
Are you currently at you ideal weight?
If,
however, you answered yes to my first two questions then I would tell
you that, no, you will not replace a habit with another habit any more
than a child would crave snacks because he stopped sucking his thumb.
Habit
formation in adults begins with actions we are aware of. Only through
purposeful repetition does an action become a habit. You chose your habits,
they don’t chose you.
But I've heard people need to replace a habit with
another habit because habits form permanent neural pathways. Is this true?
That
theory, though outdated, is still accepted in some psychological circles.
If you believe this to be true I would respond by telling you that you
have done precisely that. You have replaced the habit of being a smoker
with the habit of being a non-smoker. You have replaced your habit of
snacking with the habit of not snacking.
Both
the non-smoker and the non-snacker have more free time, more money, and
more friends. They socialize more, they exercise more, they read more,
they reflect more. These are the new habits they have chosen to replace
their undesired habit.
So, I won't gain weight if I quite smoking?
Quite
the contrary. All things being equal, you will most certainly gain weight
if you quit smoking. According to laboratory tests, the average weight
gained is 1 to 3 pounds. Understanding why, however, will provide you
with the solution to prevent it.
As
a smoker your body uses more energy and requires more sleep than your
equivalent body type in a non-smoker. This is because nicotine causes
your body to work harder and less efficiently. The poison increases your
heart rate, increases your blood pressure, and requires the conversion
of more of your food to energy, thus, less will be stored in the body
as fat. Now if you remove only the cigarettes and keep your daily caloric
intake the same, you will most certainly gain weight.
So
what is the solution? You must reduce the amount of calories you consume
in order to maintain the same body weight.
And can hypnosis help me reduce the amount of food I
eat?
Absolutely.
Especially if your unwanted calories are coming from habitual snacking.
That is precisely how our weight management programs work. Bad eating
habits are replaced with good ones. Unhealthy habits are replaced with
healthy ones.
How can I be hypnotized if I am in pain?
Remember
hypnosis is not relaxation. The majority of trance inductions utilize
progressive relaxation techniques as a preference, not as a requirement.
You can be hypnotized using alternate induction techniques.
What are some secondary gains associated with
chronic pain?
The
most common is attention. This can sometimes be so compelling that people
will consciously choose to live with their pain rather than risk losing
the consolation of their friends and family. Another big one is task avoidance.
"I've got a headache," can help you avoid undesired tasks at work as well
as at home.
So, what's the guarantee?
Upon
completing your program if your undesired feeling or habit returns, I
will work with you for free until you have resolved the situation, as
long as it takes, no questions asked.
How can you guarantee human behaviour?
Very
simple answer. We are very particular about our clientele as your success
is our highest priority. We realize that while people may desire to change
their lives, not everyone is mentally prepared to make these changes when
calling us for an appointment. This fact becomes evident more quickly
than you would think, and we will politely request that these folks call
us back when they are truly ready to make a commitment. So it is actually
our clients demonstrated desire to enact change in their lives that make
this guarantee possible.
How do I make an appointment?
I
encourage you to just pick up the phone and give me a call. 214-802-9262
We never charge for telephone consultations. Just chat with me. Make sure
I sound like someone you would be at ease with. Then explain to me how
you would like to change your life and let me know you are ready and committed
to do so. I can then schedule an appointment at your convenience, day
or evening.
We
also have a limited number of weekend appointments available. Please leave
a message and I will promptly return your call. If you do not wish to
call me please contact me by email and I will get in touch with you.
How far in advance should I schedule my session?
No
one has ever actually asked me that but I wish someone would have a long
time ago. Hypnotherapy is, for most, a big step into the unknown. Many
have already exhausted every possible option before calling us. Many who
call are still extremely nervous and unsure. For these reasons I will
not schedule an appointment more than 7 days in advance because you will
have probably changed your mind when the time actually arrives (possibly
choosing to visit your dentist instead). That is not to say you can’t
call me two weeks prior, as I know you have a very busy schedule. I’ll
pencil you in (lightly) for your session and all I would ask is that you
call to confirm with me 7 days prior. The no-show percentage drops drastically
during that last week.
What forms of payment do you accept?
We
accept Visa, MasterCard, personal checks, and, of course, cash.
We need a speaker, do you do speaking engagements?
We are always looking for a chance to talk. Seriously, if you need
a speaker contact us. We also do public speaking engagements for
FREE.